| Prioritise child safety and encourage parents to do the same | |
| Listen to parenting struggles in a non-judgemental and accepting manner | |
| Focus on building trust and rapport, as parents with mental illness can feel vulnerable | |
| Recognise and value parents’ strengths and positive attributes | |
| Re-affirm that the goal is to be a ‘good enough’ parent, not perfect | |
| Help the parent to keep their child’s needs and feelings in mind despite mental illnesssometimes getting in the way | |
| Help parents to facilitate open discussion with their child about what is happening in the home, including discussing the parent’s mental health issues and their diagnosis | |
| Ensure a family crisis plan is in place for when the parent is very unwell | |
| Help parents with parenting skills, including age-appropriate ways of relating to their child and setting firm and kind limits to protect everyone | |
| Where possible seek opportunities to protect children from being distressed by mental illness | |
| Ensure children have the best possible chance to grow up normally, and prioritise ensuring they attend school and have time to join in with their peers |